Someone once
reminded me that I spend so much time taking care of Shelley’s needs that I
neglect my other daughters.
This is
true, to an extent. One daughter lives nearby, and I see her often. The other
daughter lives in Kentucky, so the distance creates a problem. She can’t come
here on a regular basis, and I can’t go there much.
I changed
that a few weeks ago.
I invited
myself to her house for Mother’s Day. She accepted my invitation to come, and I
flew to Kentucky. We had a marvelous time. I’m writing about that trip on
another blog. You will find it here. Gay N. Lewis
My friend, Dee, checked on Shelley while I was away. In fact, she went twice to see Shelley and sent me pictures.
On another
day, Dee noticed Shelley was cold and asked for a blanket.
This friend really
blessed me by going to see Shelley while I was away. She drove thirty minutes each
way to do this. A sacrifice on her part, but I felt at ease knowing Dee would voice an issue for my daughter if one arose.
Of course,
my husband went to see Shelley too, but men don’t always see needs. And hubby
doesn’t wish to complain about a situation for fear he will make it worse. Dee
used diplomacy to bring needs to an aides attention.
I'm thankful for Dee. She is a Good Samaritan. She helps me more than she knows.
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Hints
to Help a Caregiver.
1. 1. Offer to go by a facility and give the caregiver a break.
2. 2. If something seems out of
place, point it out. The employees will keep
the facility in shape if more people stop by and notice things.
3. 3 Ask questions. They can be a way of expressing diplomacy. For instance, “Is it normal for her not to eat that applesauce?” "She is cold, is it okay if I get a blanket?"
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